Make Your Spouse Your Co-Founder, Not Your Best Friend

My previous position on how to be happy in a relationship can be summed up as "Don't expect anything of anyone." Now I thi...

3 Questions to Answer Before Deciding to End Your Marriage

Now that the holidays are a distant memory, you may be wrestling with the question or whether to stay in or to leave your marriage. By Dr. J...

7 Things My Divorce Taught Me About Marriage

So yeah, I was 22 when I filed for a divorce. How embarrassing is that? I was distraught. Never wanted the world to know that I had fail...

Love So Deeply, Hurt Too Much

"I can't live without him." "I need her back." "He was my everything." "She was my life." When...

What to Do When You Get Blindsided by Divorce

My wife hates surprises. Imagine what would happened if one day I just moved out and she got served with a complaint for divorce? (H...

Valentine's Day Advice for Dealing With Your Ex: Handle With 'Don't Care'

Want to give your ex a gift for Valentine's Day? Didn't think so. But you should and here's why: If you give your ex the gift ...