The Price Of My Affair

On a recent date, after just enough wine and too many previous dull evenings, I found myself in a very intimate and glaringly honest conve...

My Vagina Is All Over The Place

I'm sure that, once upon a time, my vagina was "peachy". Probably before I had kids -- you know, that time when all my insid...

10 Things I Want My Son to Know (Even If He Isn't Listening Right Now)

When the final results are in for the Dad Of the Year contest, I'm expecting my fatherly flaws won't land me near the top of the h...

Girlfriend's Guide to Divorce: Can Marriages Bounce Back After Change?

Spoiler alert: This week's season finale of Girlfriends' Guide to Divorce concluded with a rekindling of the two main characters,...

Estate Planning for Blended Families

You have arrived at your second marriage a little bit older and (hopefully) a little bit wiser. Second marriages and blended families pres...

Ancient Wisdom For The Broken Hearted

As founder of Never Liked It Anyway, a site dedicated to breakups and moving on, I'm always on the hunt for new ways to help heal hear...

Going Through a Divorce? Here's Your Free Divorce Advice Decoder!

There are certain times in your life when people think they have the right to cross lines with you -- and usually those times happen to be...

Going Through a Divorce? Here's Your Free Divorce Advice Decoder!

There are certain times in your life when people think they have the right to cross lines with you -- and usually those times happen to be...

What You Won't Find Me Sharing On My Blog

I am an oversharer. There is no other way to say it. If I have your attention, I will tell you my life story in less than four minutes. I ...

My Husband And I Had Sex Five Times In 12 Years

My husband and I had sex five times in 12 years. For those of you doing the math, that's once every 29 months. It just wasn't ...

How a Parent's Infidelity Can Hurt a Child

The indie music world was shocked when Sonic Youth's co-founders Kim Gordon and Thurston Moore announced they were separating in 2011 ...

Why You Need a Social Media Clause in Your Divorce

Social media has become a huge part of all of our lives, but did you know you need to include it in your divorce? There are several ways so...

Is Social Media Killing Your Marriage?

Today I have a few questions for you: Are you in a relationship? When you are cozy on the sofa, watching your favorite TV show, where is y...

Mourning a Child's Divorce

A number of years back, I wrote a book about divorce out of my own consternation and guilt going through my child's marital breakup Th...

'I Love You More Than...' When Parents Grieve Separating From a Child Post-Divorce

" All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on ." -- Havelock Ellis People try to give you all the...

I Believed I Had to Earn the Love of My Children, But I Don't, and Neither Do You

It has taken me a number of years to be able to say, without question, that the idea that as a parent, I or anyone has to EARN the love of...

10 Ways Having a Friendly Divorce Can Backfire

There are three styles of divorce: 1. ugly and destructive 2. polite but business-like 3. "Let's stay friends!" Like...

Four Signs Your Relationship Will Fail

A new relationship -- whether personal or professional -- is a lot like buying a new car. Driving it off the lot is pure bliss. And like a...

Is Great Sex Finished For Aging Boomer Men?

Changing Sexuality Is sex the same nearing 70 as it was at 50? No, but that's not necessarily bad news. The lessons I've gleaned o...

And You Call Yourself A Single Parent...

Are you a single parent? Careful how you answer. Some people are very protective of the term "single parent" and take great of...